Parents,
This month at West Coast Martial Arts, we’re focusing on Bully Awareness. It’s a significant topic for kids and, let’s be honest, adults too. One of the challenges children often face is knowing when friendly teasing—or “banter“—crosses the line and becomes hurtful.
We’ve overheard kids say things like:
“He’s got a big nose.”’
“What’s that on your face?” (talking about a birthmark)
These comments aren’t always meant to be mean, but they made us realize that kids don’t always understand how powerful their words can be.
Introducing the 30-Second Rule
To help with this, we coach our students on a simple 30-Second Rule:
“Before you comment on someone’s appearance or abilities, ask yourself: ‘Is this something they could change in 30 seconds?’
If they can fix it quickly, like removing food from their face, it’s okay to mention.
If they can’t change it right away, like a scar or frizzy hair, it’s much better to keep it to yourself.”
This rule is an easy way to help kids think before they speak. We often say:
“Nobody ever got in trouble for just using their ears!”
A little pause before speaking helps them decide if their words are helpful or not. This practice also reduces the “um’s” and “ah’s” when speaking in front of others—a common habit we notice in our classes.
And guess what? It really works!
Our students remember this simple rule and the lesson behind it. It’s a small change, but it can make a big difference in how they interact with others.
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At West Coast Martial Arts, we believe in empowering children both mentally and physically. Our children’s martial arts lessons not only teach self-defense but also important life skills like respect, kindness, and self-awareness.
If you’re searching for kids martial arts classes in Preston near me, we’d love to invite you and your child to a free introductory lesson.
Come see how martial arts can make a positive impact on your child’s life.
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